We Just Launched the Growing Us App (And We're Terrified)
After months of building, testing, and having our own relationship coached by our own app, Growing Us is live on Android and iPhone. Here's what we bu...
ritualsThe Valentine's Gift That Starts with 'Thank You'
Gratitude is the quiet engine of every good relationship. This Valentine's Day, we turned ours into art — and you can too....
ritualsSkip the Flowers: A Valentine's Gift That Actually Means Something
We love Valentine's Day. We just think the gifts could be a little more... you. Here's how to turn your favorite memory into art....
conflictHow to Resolve Conflict in Relationships Without Hating Each Other
We used to be terrible at fighting. Now we treat conflict like a debugging process. Here's the messy, honest system we built to argue better and come ...
relationship-scienceWe Tried Every Couples App So You Don't Have To (2026)
After testing 15+ relationship apps, we learned that most do one thing well—and that's the problem. Here's our brutally honest comparison....
communicationEight Ways: Questions for Long Distance Relationships that Deepen Connection
Okay, let's be real. Long distance can suck. Here's the toolkit that saved our asses — the real, messy, and deeply connecting questions that helped us...
communicationConversation Starters for Couples We Actually Use
Conversation starters for couples are really just questions designed to get you out of autopilot. Here are the ones that actually work for us....
ritualsThe 5-Minute Year Review That Ends with a Love Letter
We're big fans of New Year's resolutions. We just think couples should make them together — and a little more heartfelt....
ritualsThe Truth About Relationship Maintenance: It's Not Just for 'Broken' Couples
Think relationship tools are only for when you're fighting? Think again. Here’s why proactive maintenance is the secret to staying happy (and sane)....
communication7 Relationship Communication Exercises That Actually Work (No Therapy Speak)
We’ve curated 7 practical, non-cringe communication exercises to help you stop fighting about dishes and start connecting again....
communicationHow to Begin Relationship Coaching When You Don't Have Time for Therapy
Struggling to communicate but can't fit therapy into your schedule? Learn how AI coaching offers a 24/7 alternative for busy couples....
relationship-scienceWhy Relationship Counseling Works (And Why AI Might Be the Next Step)
We break down the science of why counseling works, how to rebuild trust, and why AI might be the key to making support accessible for everyone....
relationship-scienceCan AI Actually Help Your Relationship? (Beyond the Hype)
We dive into the rise of AI relationship coaches, how they differ from traditional therapy, and why 'robot' advice might actually be surprisingly huma...
relationship-scienceReconnecting After 10 Years: A Guide for Remote-Working Couples
We explore how to rekindle intimacy when you both work from home, finding the spark after a decade together, and non-traditional support methods....
ritualsIs a Regular Relationship Check-In Worth It? (Plus Tools for Busy Couples)
We explore the ROI of weekly relationship meetings, what real compatibility looks like, and the best coaching apps for busy tech couples who need stru...
communicationHow Solo Practice Makes Couple Conversations Actually Work
The best couple conversations start before your partner is even in the room. Here's how we use solo practice to prepare for the talks that used to der...
self-helpWhy Your Therapist's Personality Predicts Your Success
Research shows the therapeutic relationship matters more than the technique. Here's what decades of psychology research tells us about finding the rig...
relationship-scienceHow to Build Emotional Safety in Relationships
Emotional safety isn't about never fighting or always agreeing. It's about knowing you can be messy, uncertain, and human without being abandoned. Her...
relationship-scienceGottman Method Check-In Questions We Actually Use
We're not therapists, but we've borrowed heavily from Gottman's research. Here are the check-in questions from his Sound Relationship House that work ...
communicationFree Relationship Check-In Template (Copy & Use)
Stop winging your relationship check-ins. Here's the exact template we use every Friday—copy it, adapt it, make it yours....